MY pleasure, my power,

my practice

erotic embodiment for healers

Recognizing the power of the erotic within our lives can give us the energy to pursue genuine change within our world.
— Audre Lorde

"Healing yourself is connected with healing others."

Healers, your work has never been more vital. As communities grapple with systemic oppression and collective trauma, healers are at the forefront of holding and mending pain. Your role as a guide for transformation is essential—but how can you show up for your community if you're depleted?

Are you bringing your whole self to your healing work?

Are you feeling drained by your healing work or think it's inevitable that you will someday?

Has your authentic relationship with your own body been impacted by the healing work you do with others?

Are you in touch with the pleasure you get from your healing work?

Are you getting enough pleasure in your personal life?

Are you feeling stuck in your practice?

You know you were born to help other people transform their lives, and you get a sense of satisfaction being able to help people. But you're starting to feel a little drained, and a little stuck, not sure what's missing. You feel like you're giving so much to your clients that there's less & less left over for your own healing. You're focused on marketing, and honing your skills, and hustling to get clients, and all the administrative tasks necessary to keep your practice afloat. You feel less connected to your body in your personal life, and have less energy for the things that give you pleasure. You feel like your own pleasure should be separate from your healing work.

But pleasure is not only healing, pleasure is also empowering. We tend to think that intentionally prioritizing our pleasure is selfish, or taking something away from our clients. But when we are intentional about our pleasure, we have more energy, more power to pull from. When we make space for experiencing pleasure in our personal lives, we have more resilience for our healing work.

Join politicized healers in this 5-module self-paced course to learn how to identify & ethically seek pleasure in your healing work, and become more intentional about prioritizing pleasure in your personal life. You will learn breathing techniques to access your erotic energy & circulate it through your body; you will create and/or refine your pre & post-session rituals to deliberately evoke pleasure; and you will create pleasure rituals to integrate into your personal life. You will leave with an understanding of the erotic as a tool & a resource to increase the impact of your healing work with your clients as you enhance your own healing.

By the end of this course, you will:

  • Be able to use the breath to connect to your erotic energy

  • Have 1 or more pleasure rituals to integrate into your personal & professional life

  • Create/refine a pre & post session ritual to invoke pleasure

  • Know how to create effective shielding for your sessions

  • Articulate your ethical boundaries as a healer

How This Course Works

Self-Paced Learning: Five modules you move through on your own schedule. The suggested pace is one module per week (about 3-5 hours each), but you decide what works for your life.

Community Forum: Dedicated space with discussion threads for every module. Ask questions, share insights, connect with other healers doing this work - and get kicked out if you bring T.R.A.S.H. (Transphobia, Racism, Ableism, Sexism, Homophobia) into the space.

Lifetime Access: Once you purchase, the course and forum are yours to return to whenever you need.

Integration Practices: Each module includes practices designed to be useful and relevant to your actual life and practice - not busywork, but tools you can use immediately with your clients and in your personal life.

Attendee Testimonials

"The container was very safe, boundaries were clear, and M'Kali Hashiki's integrity and ability to hold space for and with others was super apparent and strong."

"I also learned how to centre myself in ways that have improved my work."

"I actually felt like a new person leaving the workshop."

"I learned that my body has all the information I need to take my next best step in engaging pleasure in my practice."

Who Is This Course For?

Anyone who is working individually with people to help them transform their lives and wants to better harness their erotic energy & understand eros' place in healing. This includes but is not limited to sexual/erotic healers, chiropractors, sex workers, personal trainers, massage therapists, coaches, energyworkers, nutritional consultants, therapists, reiki practitioners, tarot readers, & acupuncturists.

Who This Space Is For

This course is QTIPOC-centered, meaning the desires, lived experiences, and safety of Queer, Trans, Intersex People of Color are centered. All bodies are explicitly welcome: trans, cis, intersex, gender non-conforming, fat, thin, disabled, currently-abled, old, young, current or former sex workers, and folks from all marginalized communities.

This space is NOT for people harboring hierarchical value systems about bodies, invested in fatphobia, transphobia, or anti-sex work beliefs, or those in tumultuous life transitions who can't dedicate time and energy to the practices.

The Container We Create

The forum is a space for genuine connection, vulnerability, and transformation. Participants are expected to show up with respect, curiosity, and willingness to learn. Space will be made for anyone to be lovingly called in when kyriarchal messages surface. Anyone using overtly bigoted language will be immediately removed from the forum with no refund.

If you usually talk a lot in groups, this is your opportunity to strengthen listening muscles. If you're usually quiet, this is your chance to practice speaking up.

Before You Purchase: Is This Course Right For You?

Answer honestly - this helps you determine if the course will serve you or just piss you off.

☐ I believe all bodies have equal inherent worth regardless of size, ability, gender, age, sex, race, or religion

☐ I understand that gender and sex are not exclusive binaries

☐ I support fat liberation and reject fatphobia

☐ I support the agency and leadership of disabled people and reject ableism

☐ I believe sex work is legitimate, I respect sex workers' agency and believe they deserve safety and respect

☐ I'm comfortable with explicit discussions about pleasure, sexuality, and bodies

☐ I'm willing to examine my own internalized oppression and biases

☐ I'm open to being lovingly called in if I say something harmful in the forum

☐ I understand this work centers QTIPOC experiences and that's non-negotiable

If you checked fewer than 8 boxes, this course is not designed for you and will likely feel uncomfortable, confrontational, or like a waste of money. The content won't shift to accommodate different values. Purchase at your own risk - refunds are limited.

Investment

$200 (pay in full)

Payment plan available: 3 monthly payments of $73 ($219 total)

Refund Policy: 7-day partial refund if you haven't completed more than Module 1. After that, no refunds. If you complete all 5 modules and genuinely feel you didn't get value, reach out and we'll figure something out.

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Your Guide for This Journey

I'm M'kali-Hashiki, and I've been engaged in healing work in one way or another my entire adult life—professionally since 2004. I'm a Certified Sexological Bodyworker; a Certified Sound, Voice, & Music Healer; and a Certified Tantric Sacred Intimate. I offer group intensives, and erotic empowerment coaching for individuals, couples, and triads.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does it take to complete the course?

Each module takes approximately 3-5 hours to complete: video content plus integration practices. You can move through at your own pace - the suggested timeline is one module per week (5 weeks total), but you can go faster or slower based on your schedule and what your body needs.

Can I access the course from anywhere?

Yes! All you need is an internet connection and a device (computer, tablet, or smartphone). The course is entirely online and accessible wherever you are.

What if I have questions while going through the course?

That's what the forum is for! Post your questions in the relevant module thread and get support from both me and other healers in the course.

Do I need any special equipment or materials?

Just yourself, your breath, and a willingness to explore. All practices can be done with what you already have.

What kind of time commitment is this?

Plan for 3-5 hours per week if you're moving through one module weekly. This includes video content and integration practices. The more you invest, the more you'll gain - but the practices are designed to be flexible and fit into your actual life.

Will I get individual attention?

While this is a self-paced course, you'll have access to the community forum where I respond to questions and engage with participants. If you want one-on-one support, all course participants receive a 20% discount on individual coaching.

What happens after I finish the course?

You'll have lifetime access to all course materials and the forum. You'll have a readily accessible source of energy to sustain your work, feel more present in both your personal & professional lives, and your connection to pleasure will have a transformative effect on your practice & your clients. You'll also have a community of other radical healers changing the world.

Can I take this course if I'm not QTIPOC?

Yes - all bodies are welcome. The course is QTIPOC-centered, meaning those experiences and safety are prioritized, but the space explicitly welcomes people of all identities who share the values outlined in the self-vetting quiz.

What's your teaching style?

I pay careful attention to container creation, where bodies can feel safe enough and relaxed enough to speak openly. Personally, I am non-judgmental, super accepting, and kind. I distinguish between safety and comfort, and know that most of our profound transformative learning comes at that intersection.

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