cyberceremony
“Your body is both Tome & Temple. Pleasure is the Prayer.”
Our culture no longer acknowledges major life events with rites to mark their importance. We're expected to absorb transformation in private, to keep moving, to act like nothing fundamental has shifted. But your body knows better.
Taking time to acknowledge these thresholds—through ritual, through ceremony, through intentional sacred space—can be a way of coming to terms with change and a way of moving forward with your power intact. Together, we create a 3-hour embodied erotic ritual to mark any transformative life event you're moving through.
My Practice
I currently practice Ifá, a Yoruba pre-Christian spiritual tradition (it's also a science and a way of life). Before that, in my baby dyke days, I practiced Dianic Witchcraft. I also have experience with Catholicism, various sects of Buddhism, and come from a lineage of the Black Southern Baptist Church. I have been part of various pagan communities for over two decades and am currently an ordained minister in the Universal Life Church.
All this to say: I believe in the phrase "all paths lead to the same mountaintop," and I'm comfortable working within and complementary to many spiritual traditions. Whatever your spiritual beliefs, we can work together to create a ritual to serve your needs. I also believe that ritual need not be overtly spiritual or religious in order to be effective.
Ceremonies I Offer
This is a sample of the rituals available. If there's another experience you'd like to mark with ceremony, contact me and let's see what we can create.
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An abortion can sometimes be a decision heavily laden with emotion. Preparing yourself spiritually and/or spiritually processing the experience afterwards can help integrate those emotions into the forward motion of your life.
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The creation, nurturing, and greeting of a new life changes everything. Let's welcome this new being, celebrate the gift you've been given, and acknowledge the responsibilities and transformations ahead.
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Reclaiming your body after a physical transformation, gender-affirming surgery, a relationship ends, or in the face of a chronic condition.
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Bringing the erotic and the sexual into the process of conception. Especially important for those with fertility issues, or those employing artificial insemination techniques.
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Of self or others. Forgiveness of those who've betrayed you does not equal forgetting or welcoming them back into your life—it's simply letting go of the emotional and spiritual shackle their betrayal has created, refusing to give your life energy to them anymore.
Forgiveness of self does not equal ignoring your accountability—it’s an unmooring from guilt & shame that may be impacting your growth.
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A miscarriage affects not only your body, but your mind and spirit as well. Ritual can help you integrate the experience and give you space to decide what's next.
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When your body stops ovulating and shedding the uterus's lining, it can be a source of relief, a source of sadness, or both. You may want to say goodbye to a decades-long involuntary process. You may want to celebrate your Elder. You may want to simply embrace the new you.
We can also craft a ritual about entering the liminal space of Perimenopause. -
Whether you're mourning a relationship that ended because of a partner's death, or a relationship where the other party is still alive—somatically acknowledging how that loss impacts your libido, sexual expression, and relationship to your body is key to moving forward.
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Sex Magick is any ritual in which your sexual energy is harnessed and released towards a particular goal. These ceremonies differ from most Sex Magick rituals in that we will not be having sex—instead, I help you create a sacred circle (and hold it for you during the ritual) and guide you through using your sexual energy to raise a cone of power, direct it, and release it with intention.
Pricing
3-hour CyberCeremony (remote, via video)
Choose based on your real economic situation, not just your salary. Debt, dependents, cost of living, savings, access to family money - all of it matters. If you have wealth, pay at Savanna Tier to support accessibility for those who don't. (More tier guidance in the FAQ.)
Garden
$301Meadow
$450Savanna
$600
Payment plans available.
Before the ceremony, we meet for a free 45-minute session. By this point, I'll have your intake form—I'll know what you're moving through, what transition you're marking, and the timeline you're working with. This call is where you decide if you want to move forward. No pressure, no pitch, just a check if we’re in alignment. If so, we’ll also begin designing your ritual together. We'll start building the container, identifying what elements need to be present, and mapping the arc of your ceremony. After our call, we'll finish the design work via email to refine the details.
Folx in Africa/Asia/Europe/Oceania: I have dedicated slots that align with your mornings and afternoons. These aren't on the regular calendar—email me for your exclusive booking link.