s**workers
“The feminist ethics that I signed up for were respect for my bodily autonomy, that my experience is my experience, and that I’m an expert in my own life.”
This is for you if...
You're a sexworker—escorts, cam workers, full service providers, dominatrixes, sugar babies, phone sex operators, content creators, sensual massage providers, etc.—and you know something most people won't admit: the work you do is healing work. You hold space for people's loneliness, their shame, their fantasies, their need to be seen. You're a therapist without the credential, a guide through territory most people are too afraid to map.
Yes, sexwork is just work. But it also has unique challenges that compound in ways other professions don't. And right now, those challenges are intensifying. When oppression tightens its grip, demand for sexwork spikes—we see it every election cycle, every time authoritarianism flexes, every moment the world becomes more unbearable and people need somewhere to put their bodies, their desires, their desperation for human connection. You're on the receiving end of that surge, and it takes a toll.
When demand increases and resources feel scarce, it's easy for boundaries to start eroding. The client who pushes just a little. The session that bleeds over time. The internal negotiation about what you'll do for how much because rent is due and the work is there. And whether or not you enjoy the physical aspects of your work, there's still the exhaustion of being erotically available on someone else's timeline, catering to their desires. Even when the work feels good, your personal erotic life—the pleasure that's just yours, not shaped by what someone else wants or needs—can start to feel inaccessible.
You deserve support that honors both the sacredness of what you do and the specific wear it creates on your body, your boundaries, your erotic life. Support that understands you're a whole human navigating a profession that asks you to be embodied on demand while the world treats you as either invisible or immoral.
What we work on together
Preserving the authenticity of your erotic expression: Whether you love the physical work or it's just a job, there's a difference between professional erotic expression and your personal erotic life. We use breathwork to help you maintain access to pleasure that's purely yours—not shaped by client desires, not on anyone else's timeline, not transactional. Just yours.
Maintaining embodied boundaries: When scarcity thinking creeps in, boundaries get harder to hold. We work on practices that help you stay connected to your body's "yes" and "no" in real time, so you can navigate client negotiations without abandoning yourself.
Caring for your body as yours: Your body is your instrument, yes, but it's also your home. We create space for you to tend to it outside the context of work—to access pleasure that's restorative rather than performative, to release what you've absorbed from clients, to remember it belongs to you.
Sustaining resilience in your craft: Because the work is meaningful, and you're good at it, and you want to keep doing it without it costing you your erotic life. Learning to use breath and somatic practice to separate work from personal intimacy, to discharge what doesn't serve you, to stay connected to why you chose this in the first place.
Options
Breathwork Coaching
A focused, breath-based journey into a specific longing or threshold you're ready to meet. Whether you want to deepen your connection to your erotic energy, release shame, or rewire your relationship with the sacred, this series centers your breath as the guide toward transformation.
Five weekly 55-minute sessions where we use breathwork as the primary modality to access what your body knows, release what it's been holding, and reconnect you to the erotic aliveness that's yours alone.
Pricing
Garden (If your rate is $100-250/hour): $245
Meadow (If your rate is $250-500/hour): $365
Savanna (If your rate is $500+/hour): $485
Integrative Coaching
A more expansive path for those who want to go beyond breathwork and weave in ritual, creative expression, ancestor work, journaling, and embodied assignments. Together we create practices that speak directly to your life, your history, and your medicine. This is soul work, not homework.
Five weekly 90-minute sessions where breathwork is the foundation, but we also co-create rituals, bring in your ancestors, explore creative practices, and build embodied assignments that integrate into your actual life.
Pricing
Garden (If your rate is $100-250/hour): $500
Meadow (If your rate is $250-500/hour): $750
Savanna (If your rate is $500+/hour): $1,000
Working survival rates? If your sessions are under $100, reach out—I have group and sliding options that might work better.
Payment plans available—you don't have to pay it all at once. All packages require commitment to the full series. Sessions are weekly unless we arrange otherwise.
Returning clients: 20% discount on the same offering type.
Before you commit, take a breath. This free 45-minute session is your chance to feel into the work—to explore what you're carrying, what tools you already have, and whether this space can hold what you need. No pitch, no pressure, no respectability politics. Just you, your breath, and a container that honors both the healing you offer and the care you deserve. Come guarded. Come tender. Come exactly as you are.
Folx in Africa/Asia/Europe/Oceania: I have dedicated slots that align with your mornings and afternoons. These aren't on the regular calendar—email me for your exclusive booking link.